Finding The Answers In
Managing Your Fears And Anxieties
by Stan Popovich
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for all of the answers in how to manage your most
persistent fears and anxieties? I deal with fear on
a personal level and I found it difficult to find
all of the answers in managing my anxieties. I read
some anxiety books and talked to various professionals,
however I still had trouble dealing with certain fears
and anxieties. Eventually, I wrote a book that presents
all of the ways to help manage those hard to manage
fears and anxieties and it is located at http://www.trebleheartbooks.com/mvStanPopovich.html
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Let
me explain the process of how I found those answers. I first
went to my local bookstore to find those books that dealt
with fear and anxiety. I looked for those books that reviewed
the techniques in how to manage certain fears and anxieties.
As I read these books, I wrote down some notes on those
techniques that I found most useful in managing my fears.
As a result, I started a notebook and every time I found
a technique that was useful in managing my fears, I would
write it down in my small notebook.
Secondly, I talked to various professionals in the psychology
and religious fields
and they provided me with additional information. Again,
I would write down in my
notebook the information that the professionals gave me
that I felt was most useful
in managing my fears. Some of the techniques that I was
told to use was learning how
to use positive self talk, using thought stopping techniques,
and breaking a overwhelming problem into its smallest parts.
For instance, I was told that I should visualize a red stop
sign in my mind when I encounter a fear provoking thought.
The stop sign would remind me to stop focusing on that thought
and to think of something else. Another example, is when
I conducted my job search. Instead of looking at the job
search as a whole, I broke down the job search into many
different tasks. I first developed my resume. When I completed
my resume, I began to look for companies that would hire
me and I submitted my resume. |
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sending out my resume, I then focused on the job interviewing
process. During
my job search, I performed each of these tasks one at a
time which prevented me from
getting overwhelmed. I made it a point that every time I
would experience a fearful or anxiety related situation,
I would use the information in my notebook to help me. After
the anxiety would go away I figure out what techniques worked
and which ones didn't work. In every anxiety related situation
I experienced, I began to learn what worked, what didn't
work, and what I needed to improve on in managing my fears
and anxieties
At the same time, I would continue to talk to various professionals
to learn and to
become better at managing the many types of fears and anxieties.
I would review what
I have learned with these professionals and they would provide
me with additional
information so that I would be better able to deal with
my fears in the future. I did this research for around fourteen
years and during this time, I gained a lot of valuable information
on how to manage fear and anxiety.
The main point of this article is that no matter how difficult
it is to manage your fear and anxieties, the answers are
out there if you look hard enough. It might take some hard
work and persistence, but it is possible to find those techniques
that work for you
About the Author
Stanley Popovich endured
his share of fear and anxiety over the years. Unable to
find the help he needed, the author decided to undertake
his own research. The
result is "A Layman's Guide to Managing Fear Using
Psychology, Christianity and Non
Resistant Methods" - an easy to read book based on
a combination of research and
personal experience. For additional information go to: http://www.trebleheartbooks.com/mvStanPopovich.html
Or Email the author at lonestar_9780@yahoo.com
Copyright©2005 Stan Popovich.All Rights Reserved |
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