Massage
Bill of Rights
by Wayne McDonald
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Massage
is both an art and a science.
Let
me begin with some general terms and facts to give you more
of an idea about massage therapists that are certified and
licensed. With this information you will probably surprise
your therapist with how much you know and you’ll be
able to ask the right questions when making your next appointment.
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Licensing
maybe by the city where the therapist works or a State License.
California has NO state licensing, but has licensing by each city.
Licensing is through the police department and has nothing to
do with massage therapy. In other states massage therapists can
get a license through the state. Massage therapist may be required
to publish their license when advertising, similar to contractors
and home remodelers.
CERTIFICATION
and LICENSING
Certification or licensing may require 300 hours
of training (basic) to 500 hours to 1000 hours of training. Certification
of hours is usually with an accredited school. Some licensing
may require a Certification plus hours of working with clients.
There is a lot of inconsistency with licensing
(or non-licensing) state by state or city by city. For that reason,
clients can find great massage therapists through several Massage
Therapy Associations. These associations have their own standards
and ethics that their members adhere to.
SCIENCE
OF MASSAGE
A massage therapist can complete 300 hours of
training in about three months. In general, a therapist will learn
the SCIENCE of massage or the basic massage strokes, an introduction
to the muscle and skeletal system and probably an introduction
to deep tissue massage. A massage therapist with 300 hours of
training can do a good massage.
ART
OF MASSAGE
The next milestone is 500 hours of training. This
is the ART of MASSAGE. The massage therapist will learn more about
muscles and how to blend relaxing massage strokes with effective
deep tissue work to get the knots out of your back.
ART
and SCIENCE OF MASSAGE
A massage therapist with 1000 hours of training
is very dedicated to their profession and is a specialist. This
is the ART and SCIENCE of massage therapy. The therapist will
have completed over two years of training and knows the finer
points of massage therapy.
YOUR
FIRST APPOINTMENT
Massage therapy is like fine dining. You have
the choice of dining at a local café if you’re on
a budget or you can try fine dining. A massage appointment can
be one hour or an hour & half. If you want a massage to feel
great and be relaxed, then a therapist with 300 to 500 of training
would best fit your needs.
If you have a lot of body tension or your body
feels all twisted and out place, then you’ll probably want
to work with someone that has over 300 of training. If you are
an athlete or workout, you probably want someone with 500 hours
or more.
Before booking your appointment, tell the therapist
what kind of massage you are looking for. If the massage therapist
is too busy to talk to you on the phone or seems a little cold,
then call someone else. By the time you finish talking with the
massage therapist you should already have rapport or some kind
of comfortabilty with the therapist.
MASSAGE
BILL OF RIGHTS FOR THE CLIENT
As a new client visiting a massage therapist you
do have rights. You have the right to say "No". I know
this sounds obvious, but I can not tell you how many clients I
have talked to that have endured a massage because they felt they
were obligated to go through with the appointment.
Within fifteen minutes of your appointment you
should know if the massage therapist is there for you or just
going through the motions. There is a bond, or a sense of energy,
that you can feel and know that your therapist is connected with
you.
If it doesn’t feel right, then say thank-you
and leave. Or, ask the therapist to make whatever adjustments
are necessary to make it feel more comfortable. A massage is NOT
about pain. Yes you may experience a little of discomfort. As
my teacher once said to me, "If the client sits up like a
fish, then lighten your pressure."
I remember I had a very well trained massage therapist
working on me once and "he knew what was best for the client."
Yes he was trained and he knew what he was doing, but that was
not what I wanted for a massage on that day. I thanked him and
left. A few months later I booked another appointment with him
when I needed a more "detailed" massage.
If you decide to leave you may be obligated to
pay for the session. Personally, I would rather end a session
and pay rather than stay and endure something that is not what
I need or feels like a suit that doesn’t fit.
If
you are not asked to pay for the session, you may tip $10 as a
courtesy for the therapist who took the time to book the session.
Hopefully this won’t happen.
MASSAGE
BILL OF RIGHTS FOR THE MASSAGE THERAPIST
A massage therapist has the right to be treated
like a person and professional. As a client you should always
arrive on time and leave when the time ends.
A therapeutic massage by a licensed therapist
is not erotic bodywork. If you did not ask for this before booking
a session, then do not assume this is included with the massage.
Some people think this is always included with a massage –
don’t assume anything, ask!
The massage therapist can ask a client to leave
for not respecting their boundaries or for any various reasons
discussed.
Draping or covering a client during a massage
is for both the client and the therapist. It defines the boundaries
between therapist and the client. Personally, I prefer a massage
without being covered. I always ask about draping before I book
an appointment.
FINAL
WORDS
As a massage therapist, it is a great joy to give
a massage and to nurture another human being. It has many health
benefits and is more than a luxury for the rich and famous. Our
bodies need to be touched and nurtured. It is what makes us feel
alive and makes us more loving and kind to others around us.
You
can make two people happy today. Call a massage therapist today
and relax into health.
About
the Author
Wayne
McDonald is a licensed massage therapist and the founder of 123relax
Massage Directory. To find a Health Therapist near you visit us
at http://www.123relax.com
and http://www.HolisticWebDirectory.com